洞穿男人的细节

2007/10/23 at 13:37 7 条评论

杭州归,满城飘满桂花香,杭州的日子很滋润,而我已经渐行渐远。因为随着工作阅历的增加,我发现自己是一个工作狂,无法享受安逸的生活,觉得那是在浪费生命。

人生苦短,我一定要让自己多看一眼这花花世界。闭眼了就是闭眼了,两腿一瞪,从此以后宇宙的千千万万年都再也和我无关了,就像我来临这个世界之前地球的46亿年一样。每次想到此,心里都一阵凛然。

当年杭州城中一同走出去的国君兄弟有四人,每一个都特征鲜明很耐读。观察男人是一件有意思的事情,25岁前,阅人太少,眼光欠缺,大把时间可供挥霍,容易被皮相迷惑最终落得伤心断肠。那么我们就既往不咎。25岁后,贬值的预期以加速度态势袭来,所以需要在尽量短的时间内洞穿男人,好让我们判断,是否应该在这个男人身上再多花时间。

年轻的女孩子容易误以为自己一无所有,除了自己的自然属性:美貌和青春,希望获得有钱男人的好感,找到通往少奶奶的捷径。其实这个世界上只对你的两个属性持肯定态度:智慧,努力。

物欲横流,好男人和好女人愈发稀少。事业平平的男人缺乏才华和毅力,事业有成的男人变得谨小慎微瞻前顾后,很难让女人欣赏和佩服。

前几天看书的时候看到女人应该关注的男人细节,洋洋洒洒近百条。其实何须近百条,一个男人的品质只需要几件小事就可以洞察,女人的大眼睛里,不能只盯着他的荷包。在那洋洋洒洒几百条里筛选了一下,我比较在乎的男人的细节是:

1)      他习惯用现金还是信用卡

拥有三个银行以上信用卡并且事无巨细喜欢刷卡消费的男人,热衷名利,追逐金钱,有自信,有野心。习惯用现金的男人基本上没有可能成为一个挥霍无度的花花公子。日常生活现金大宗消费刷卡并且只有一张信用卡的男人,是最正常的男人。常常忘记带钱的男人,他需要被人照顾。

2)      他的朋友

一个朋友遍天下来自各行各业的社交高手不容易长情,他可以很容易地做你朋友但是也可以很容易地消失;身边依然有10年以上的朋友的男人非常忠诚、稳重,你不容易进入他的心,一旦进入,就不容易结束。

3)      他最喜欢的颜色

喜欢黑色的男人稳重,喜欢红色的男人热烈,喜欢蓝色的男人寡独。喜欢绿色的男人有品味,喜欢白色的男人浪漫,喜欢黄色的男人略显单纯。

4)      他喜欢的内衣类型

喜欢宽松内衣的男人最大众,他们床上技巧平平但是长情,放在家里最让老婆安心。喜欢白色紧身内衣的男人对自己的身材和性能力非常自信,并且他自恋,通常生命中的大部分时间生活在嫉妒和羡慕中。

5)      他的兄弟姐妹

排行老大的男人责任感强,有很强的控制欲,排行老么的男人活跃度高,喜欢被宠爱,排行中间的很敏感,比较容易得罪,独生子女通常粗枝大叶,习惯自我中心。

6)      他的交流方式

和你喜欢发短信的男人小家子气,比较繁琐和婆妈,喜欢煲电话的男人有些老派,传统,喜欢网聊的男人具有很强的自我保护倾向,并且不能成大器。

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  • 1. Li  |  2007/10/24 @ 02:26

    "…每次想到此,心里都一阵凛然"
    我有同感(BTW,喜欢"凛然"这个词用在这里,很准确)

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  • 2. jivier  |  2007/10/25 @ 11:32

    已阅

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  • 3. 剑康  |  2008/04/02 @ 15:46

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